For most of her life, Caroline Vee never imagined she would one day become one of the internet\u2019s most talked-about relationship commentators.<\/p>\n
Now 73, the woman known online as the \u201cBusty Granny\u201d has opened up about marriage, intimacy, and the reasons many men quietly seek fulfillment outside their relationships \u2014 and her comments are sparking heated debate\u2026. Continue Reading <\/p>\n
Vee, whose real name is Siobhan Burt, revealed during an appearance on the Tea At Four podcast that she spent nearly four decades living a celibate life before experiencing what she describes as a \u201csexual awakening\u201d later in life.<\/p>\n
\u201cI became an escort in 2017,\u201d she explained during the interview.<\/p>\n
Before that, she had spent years involved in religion and strict beliefs around intimacy.<\/p>\n
\u201cWhen I became a born-again Christian and we couldn\u2019t have sex, it was like, \u2018Well, I didn\u2019t enjoy it in my younger years anyway, so it\u2019s not going to be a loss,\u2019\u201d she said.<\/p>\n
According to Vee, the lack of interest in intimacy during those years made celibacy feel manageable.<\/p>\n
\u201cThat\u2019s how I managed to go through the 40 years,\u201d she explained. \u201cPartly because it wasn\u2019t allowed in the church, but also because I didn\u2019t have any interest.\u201d<\/p>\n
Everything changed later in life when she began exploring a completely different side of herself \u2014 eventually launching a career as an escort and adult content creator.<\/p>\n
During the podcast, Vee answered questions from callers seeking advice about relationships, intimacy, and insecurities many couples struggle to discuss openly.<\/p>\n
One caller, a 25-year-old woman named Lucy, shared concerns that her boyfriend wanted to end their relationship after learning about her previous interest in BDSM.<\/p>\n
\u201cMy boyfriend is considering breaking up with me after learning about my past sexual kinks,\u201d the caller explained. \u201cJust because I had a few wild years exploring BDSM, he thinks we\u2019re no longer compatible.\u201d<\/p>\n
Vee initially responded with humor.<\/p>\n
\u201cJust going to put you on hold and I\u2019ll come back shortly \u2014 after I\u2019ve killed him,\u201d she joked.<\/p>\n
But she quickly shifted into a more serious conversation about honesty and communication between partners.<\/p>\n
\u201cThe fact that she admitted it is good because she\u2019s being honest,\u201d Vee said. \u201cIf he doesn\u2019t like it, then ditch!\u201d<\/p>\n
Still, she encouraged the caller to explore the deeper reason behind her boyfriend\u2019s discomfort before making a final decision.<\/p>\n
\u201cMaybe try to find out why he doesn\u2019t like it,\u201d she explained. \u201cHas he got a problem with it? Or are you hoping he\u2019ll participate? Or is it something you experimented with and moved on from? There are all kinds of reasons somebody might feel insecure about it.\u201d<\/p>\n
Throughout the conversation, Vee repeatedly returned to one theme: communication.<\/p>\n
She argued that many couples avoid discussing intimacy honestly, which can slowly create frustration and emotional distance inside relationships.<\/p>\n
According to Vee, this silence is one of the biggest reasons some married men eventually seek excitement elsewhere.<\/p>\n
\u201cVery common,\u201d she said while discussing clients who come to her with fantasies they feel unable to share at home.<\/p>\n
\u201cIt\u2019s the men that want to explore, but the women don\u2019t want to. The women are stuck with missionary \u2014 they don\u2019t want to do any other positions.\u201d<\/p>\n
Vee even shared a personal story about her own sister that left her stunned.<\/p>\n
\u201cI mentioned a 69 to my sister once, and she\u2019d never heard of it,\u201d she recalled. \u201cAnd I\u2019m thinking, \u2018You\u2019ve been married for 40 years \u2014 have you only done missionary?\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n
For Vee, the issue is not necessarily about extreme behavior or constant experimentation. Instead, she believes long-term relationships often suffer when couples stop being curious about each other or stop talking openly about their needs.<\/p>\n
She also emphasized that compatibility can vary widely from one relationship to another.<\/p>\n
\u201cYou\u2019ve got to find what works for you,\u201d she explained.<\/p>\n
When asked about favorite positions, she admitted there is no universal answer.<\/p>\n
\u201cIt depends on the shape of the man and his penis,\u201d she said candidly. \u201cDifferent positions work differently on those two factors.\u201d<\/p>\n
While some listeners praised Vee\u2019s honesty and openness, others criticized her views, arguing that marriage involves much more than physical experimentation.<\/p>\n
Still, her appearance on the podcast has triggered widespread discussion online about intimacy, communication, and the emotional gaps that can quietly grow inside long-term relationships.<\/p>\n
Whether people agree with her or not, Vee\u2019s comments touched on a topic many couples rarely discuss openly \u2014 how silence, embarrassment, or fear of judgment can slowly damage connection over time.<\/p>\n
And according to the 73-year-old escort, the solution is often much simpler than people think:<\/p>\n
Talk honestly before distance turns into secrecy.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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